You need someone's help, but you don't want to sound helpless or pushy. Make it light, specific and easy to say yes to.
Way 1 · best default
A friendly way to ask for help, especially with something practical.
Examples
Could you give me a hand with these bags?
When you're free, could you give me a hand with the new printer?
In a conversation
A: That looks heavy!
B: It is. Could you give me a hand?
Common mistake
Not: Please help me.
Say: Could you give me a hand?
"Please help me" sounds like an emergency in English. Save it for real danger.
Way 2 · opener
Checks someone has a moment before you ask. Quick and relaxed.
Examples
Have you got a sec? I can't get this spreadsheet to work.
Hey, have you got a sec? I need a second opinion.
In a conversation
A: Have you got a sec?
B: Sure, what's up?
Way 3 · naming the problem
Shows exactly where you need help, so it's easy for them to say yes.
Examples
I'm a bit stuck on this formula. Any ideas?
Sorry to bother you, I'm a bit stuck on this last question.
Way 4 · personal favour
For a bigger ask that costs the other person time or effort.
Examples
Can I ask you a favour? Could you feed my cat this weekend?
I know you're busy, but can I ask you a favour?
In a conversation
A: Can I ask you a favour?
B: Of course. What do you need?
Common mistake
Not: Can I ask you a help?
Say: Can I ask you a favour?
"Help" can't take "a". Ask for "a favour" or say "Can you help me?"
Way 5 · polite
Careful and polite, for a stranger, an older person or a new colleague.
Examples
Excuse me, would you mind helping me with something?
Would you mind helping me with something? It'll only take a minute.
Common mistake
Not: Would you mind to help me?
Say: Would you mind helping me with something?
After "would you mind", use the -ing form.
Read the moment, then choose the way that fits it best.
Pick one and practise it in a real conversation. Save the ones you want to remember.
