How to say it · Plans, time and sorry

Changing my mind

You said one thing, and now you think differently. You want to say so clearly, without sounding unreliable.

5 ways to say it
At an ice-cream counter, Mia switches her pointing finger to a different tub under a U-turn arrow.
How sureUnsureCertain

Way 1 · best default

I've changed my mind

Clear and direct. Your decision is now different.

How sureCertain
ToneNeutral
Use itAnywhere

Examples

Actually, I've changed my mind. I'll have the fish.

I've changed my mind about the trip. I'd love to come.

In a conversation

A: So you're not coming to the party?
B: Actually, I've changed my mind. I'll come for an hour.

Common mistake

Not: I change my mind.

Say: I've changed my mind.

Use the present perfect: the change has happened and matters now.

Next: On second thoughts

Way 2 · quick rethink

On second thoughts

You rethink almost straight away, often a few seconds later.

How sureUnsure
ToneCasual
Use itAnywhere

Examples

A large one, please. On second thoughts, make it a small.

On second thoughts, let's not send that email yet.

In a conversation

A: Shall I book the early train?
B: Yes. On second thoughts, let's get the later one.

Next: I've had a rethink

Way 3 · considered

I've had a rethink

You've thought it over properly and come to a new view.

How sureMiddle
ToneNeutral
Use itAt work

Examples

I've had a rethink about the budget. Can we talk?

I've had a rethink, and I think we should keep the Friday meeting.

Next: I'm not so sure any more

Way 4 · having doubts

I'm not so sure any more

You haven't changed your mind yet, but you're starting to doubt.

How sureVery unsure
ToneNeutral
Use itAnywhere

Examples

I said yes to the job, but now I'm not so sure any more.

I loved the plan at first. I'm not so sure any more.

In a conversation

A: Are you still buying that flat?
B: I'm not so sure any more. The street is really noisy.

Next: I take it back

Way 5 · undo your words

I take it back

You un-say something you said, often an opinion or a joke.

How sureVery certain
ToneCasual
Use itWith friends

Examples

OK, I take it back. This film is actually really good.

I said you'd hate it. I take it back, you look great in it!

Common mistake

Not: I take back my word.

Say: I take it back.

"Take back my word" is a literal translation. Say "I take it back" or "I take that back".

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