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How to discuss damage to a borrowed tool in English

Telling a neighbour you've damaged something they lent you can feel awkward, especially when money comes up. You'll find natural phrases to explain, apologise and discuss what to do next.

On your next-door neighbour's doorstep
Owen · your next-door neighbour“Alright, mate? You all done with the drill?”

The situation

What happened

  1. You borrowed your neighbour's cordless drill on Saturday to put up some shelves.
  2. Halfway through the second hole, it made a burning smell and stopped.
  3. It still won't turn on.
  4. It's a good make but about six years old, and a new one costs around £120.

Your goal

Pay £45 at most, and stay on good terms with Owen.

What to say

8 lines, in the order you'd need them

  1. 1 · Open

    A calm way to introduce bad news

    “Hi, have you got a minute? There's a problem with the drill.”

  2. 2 · Explain

    Gives the facts without guessing at the cause

    “I was halfway through a hole when it smelled of burning and wouldn't start again.”

    “I've tried it again today, but it's still not turning on.”

  3. 3 · Ask

    Invites useful background without blaming anyone

    “Do you know if it's had any trouble like this before?”

  4. 4 · Push back

    Acknowledges their feelings before disagreeing

    “I get why you're upset, but it might be repairable.”

  5. 5 · Meet halfway

    Suggests a practical next step

    “Let's see what the repair shop says before we decide what to do.”

    Shows responsibility without sounding formal

    “I'm happy to help with a reasonable repair cost.”

  6. 6 · Wrap up

    Closes with a clear offer

    “I'll take it to the repair shop and let you know what they say.”

Say it like a local

Drop the stiff version

Learners sayI am sorry for breaking your drill. I will compensate you.

Locals sayI'm really sorry. It stopped while I was using it, so let's work out what to do.

It sounds personal and cooperative, rather than formal or legal.

Listen in

The same kind of moment, smaller

The highlighted phrases are the ones worth stealing.

ThemHiya. You all right?
YouYeah. I'm afraid I've lost one of the bits from your screwdriver set.
ThemOh, don't worry about that.
YouNo, I'll get you a new one. Which size was it?
Owen · your next-door neighbouris waiting for you

Now say it out loud

Owen answers what you actually say, and the mood shifts with every line. Get what you came for, then hear how a local would have said each of yours.

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