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How to ask a neighbour to turn the music down in English
It can feel awkward to complain when your neighbour is having friends over. Here are natural phrases to explain the problem and make a polite but clear request.
The situation
What happened
- Your neighbour has friends over, and their music is coming through your shared wall.
- You start a hospital shift at 6:30 tomorrow morning, so you need to sleep soon.
Your goal
Get your neighbour to turn the music down by 11 pm.
What to say
8 lines, in the order you'd need them
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1 · Open
A friendly way to start an awkward conversation
“Hi, sorry to bother you this late.”
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2 · Explain
Focuses on the sound rather than blaming anyone
“I'm next door, and the music's coming through the wall quite loudly.”
Gives a clear reason for your request
“I've got a hospital shift at half six, so I need to get some sleep soon.”
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3 · Ask
Polite and natural without sounding too formal
“Would you mind turning it down a bit, please?”
“Keep it down” is the everyday way to say it
“Could you keep it down after eleven?”
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4 · Push back
Firm without becoming unfriendly
“I understand, but it's still loud enough to keep me awake.”
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5 · Meet halfway
Offers a practical compromise
“If the music's staying on, could you turn the bass down at least?”
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6 · Wrap up
Ends warmly while keeping the request clear
“Thanks, I'd really appreciate it.”
Say it like a local
Drop the stiff version
Learners sayYour music is very noisy. Please reduce the volume.
Locals sayThe music's coming through the wall. Could you turn it down a bit?
It describes the problem gently and uses a natural spoken request.
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