Falling out · People and relationships

have it out with someone

argue openly

To discuss an argument directly and angrily with someone.

B2 common mostly spoken

This vs that

confront him angrily

I'm going to have it out with him.

talk about it, possibly calmly

I'm going to discuss it with him.

Hear it in real life

Why are you still avoiding Sarah?

I'm not. I'm going to have it out with her tonight.

Play the conversation

I need to have it out with my brother about what happened.

Which sounds natural?

Psst — which one would you actually say?

The mistake everyone makes

Not: I need to have it out ‸ him about the money.

Say: I need to have it out with him about the money.

The idiom always uses with before the person.

Say it together

Whole chunks natives use with it.

have it out with someone about ___

I need to have it out with him about the rent.

She finally had it out with her colleague about the missed deadlines.

Phrases to borrow

More for talking about falling out.

have words with ___

I had words with him about the noise.

take something personally

Try not to take his criticism personally.

Falling out words

People and relationships · Falling out: the words around “have it out with someone”.

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Your turn: say it out loud

I need to have it out with him.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

have it out with someone

argue openly

“I need to have it out with my brother about what happened.”

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