How to say it · Kind words

Saying thank you

"Thank you very much" works, but it can sound stiff with friends and too small when someone has really helped you. Match the thanks to the favour.

6 ways to say it

On her doorstep, Mia hugs her cat as an older neighbour hands it back; her speech bubble shows two hands pressed together.

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Way 1 · best default

Thanks so much

Warm and natural for almost any favour, from a friend, a colleague or a stranger.

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Examples

Thanks so much for picking me up from the station.

Oh, you got me a coffee too? Thanks so much!

In a conversation

A: I've left the spare key under the plant pot for you.
B: Perfect, thanks so much.

Common mistake

Not: ~~Thank you~~ for ~~your help~~ me.

Say: Thanks so much for helping me.

After "for", use a noun ("your help") or an -ing verb ("helping me"), not both mixed together.

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Next: Cheers

Way 2 · quick and casual

Cheers

A quick, everyday British thanks for small things: holding a door, passing the salt.

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Examples

Cheers, mate. I owe you one.

He held the door open, so I said "cheers" and ran in.

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Next: Many thanks

Way 3 · email sign-off

Many thanks

Polite and short. Mostly used in work emails, often just before your name.

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Use itAt work

Examples

Many thanks for sending the files so quickly.

Could you confirm by Friday? Many thanks, Jo

Common mistake

Not: Many ~~thank~~ for your reply.

Say: Many thanks for your reply.

It's always "thanks" with an s here, just like "thanks a lot".

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Next: I really appreciate it

Way 4 · sincere

I really appreciate it

It shows you noticed the effort, not just the favour. Good when someone gave up their time.

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Examples

You didn't have to stay late, but I really appreciate it.

Thanks for listening last night. I really appreciate it.

In a conversation

A: I've checked your CV and added a few notes.
B: That's so kind of you. I really appreciate it.

Common mistake

Not: Thank you, I really ~~appreciate.~~

Say: Thank you, I really appreciate it.

"Appreciate" needs an object. Don't drop the "it".

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Next: You're a lifesaver

Way 5 · warm and playful

You're a lifesaver

Big, friendly thanks when someone saves you from a small disaster at just the right moment.

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Use itWith friends

Examples

You brought an umbrella for me? You're a lifesaver.

Thanks for covering my shift. You're a lifesaver, honestly.

In a conversation

A: My battery's at two percent and my train ticket's on my phone.
B: Here, use my charger.
A: You're a lifesaver.

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Next: I can't thank you enough

Way 6 · deeply grateful

I can't thank you enough

For a really big favour that made a difference to your life. Save it for when you mean it.

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Use itAnywhere

Examples

You looked after the kids all week. I can't thank you enough.

I can't thank you enough for everything you did when Dad was ill.

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