How to say it · How you feel

Showing surprise

Someone tells you news you didn't expect. Saying "Really?" every time can sound like you doubt them, so mix in lines for small, big and jaw-dropping surprises.

6 ways to say it
At a bus stop, Sam's jaw drops at Jo's news, with a jagged burst shape beside his head.
How strongMildStunned

Way 1 · best default

I didn't see that coming

You honestly didn't expect it. Works for good or bad news, with friends or at work.

How strongMiddle
ToneNeutral
Use itAnywhere

Examples

They're moving to Canada? I didn't see that coming.

Wow, a new manager already. I didn't see that coming.

In a conversation

A: Tom and Lisa have split up.
B: Oh no. I didn't see that coming.

Next: Oh, I didn't know that

Way 2 · mild interest

Oh, I didn't know that

A small surprise: a new fact, not big news. Polite and interested.

How strongVery mild
ToneNeutral
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Examples

Oh, I didn't know that. I thought she was from Leeds.

You can freeze bread? Oh, I didn't know that.

Next: That's a surprise

Way 3 · calm and work-safe

That's a surprise

You show surprise but stay calm. Good at work, where a big reaction might seem too much.

How strongMild
ToneNeutral
Use itAt work

Examples

They've moved the deadline forward? That's a surprise.

Well, that's a surprise. I thought he'd say no.

Common mistake

Not: I'm very surprising.

Say: That's a surprise.

"Surprising" describes the news. "Surprised" is how you feel: "The news is surprising. I'm surprised."

Next: Wait, what?

Way 4 · double take

Wait, what?

The news is so sudden you stop and ask again. Funny and natural with friends.

How strongStunned
ToneCasual
Use itWith friends

Examples

Wait, what? You quit your job this morning?

Wait, what? Since when do you have a dog?

In a conversation

A: Oh, by the way, I'm getting married in June.
B: Wait, what? You only met him in March!

Next: No way

Way 5 · excited shock

No way

Big, happy surprise. You do believe them, you're just amazed. Say it with energy.

How strongStunned
ToneCasual
Use itWith friends

Examples

No way! You got tickets?

You met her at the airport? No way!

In a conversation

A: Guess who's having twins?
B: No way! Congratulations!

Next: I can't believe it

Way 6 · totally stunned

I can't believe it

The strongest: you're shocked, in a good or bad way. Keep it for really big news.

How strongVery stunned
ToneNeutral
Use itAnywhere

Examples

We won the whole thing? I can't believe it.

I can't believe it. The shop's been there for fifty years.

Test yourself: which would you say?
Pick the right one

Which would you say?

Read the moment, then choose the way that fits it best.

The mistake learners make

What a translation app gives you, and what people actually say.

Not: Really? ... Really? ... Really?

Say: I didn't see that coming.

One "Really?" is fine. Said after every piece of news, it can sound like you don't believe them, or aren't listening.

Now say it out loud

Pick one and practise it in a real conversation. Save the ones you want to remember.