Sympathy · Feelings and energy

my heart goes out to you

express deep sympathy

I feel very sorry for what you are experiencing.

B2 common speech & writing

This vs that

expresses deep sympathy

My heart goes out to you after your loss.

expresses mild disappointment

That’s a shame about the cancelled picnic.

Hear it in real life

We’ve had to cancel the wedding because of Dad’s illness.

Oh, I’m so sorry. My heart goes out to you.

Play the conversation

My heart goes out to you and your family after such a terrible loss.

Which sounds natural?

Psst — which one would you actually say?

The mistake everyone makes

Not: My heart goes to you in this difficult moment.

Say: My heart goes out to you in this difficult time.

The fixed expression includes 'goes out'.

Say it together

Whole chunks natives use with it.

my heart goes out to ___

My heart goes out to everyone affected by the flooding.

My heart goes out to you and your family.

Phrases to borrow

More for talking about sympathy.

I'm here if you need me

I'm here if you need me later.

That must be really difficult

That must be really difficult for you.

Sympathy words

Feelings and energy · Sympathy: the words around “my heart goes out to you”.

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Your turn: say it out loud

My heart goes out to you.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

my heart goes out to you

express deep sympathy

“My heart goes out to you and your family after such a terrible loss.”

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