Grammar fix
get to
upset or affect someone
to gradually upset, bother, or wear someone down emotionally
phrasal verbB2core

Hear it in context
Notice where the phrase sounds natural.
I try not to let the comments get to me, but some days they do.
All the bad news lately is really starting to get to her.
Fix the pattern
One small grammar move makes it sound right.
Confusing it with 'get to' meaning arrive at a place.