Relationships

set a boundary

state a limit

To set a boundary means to make clear what behaviour you will accept from someone.

B2 common speech & writing

expression

Hear it in real life

What did you say when she kept borrowing your things?

I set a boundary and told her to ask first.

Play the conversation

I had to set a boundary about answering work messages at night.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: I put a boundary with my colleague.

Say: I set a boundary with my colleague.

Use the verb “set” with “boundary,” not “put.”

Build it

How it fits in a sentence.

set a boundary; set clear boundaries

Your turn: say it out loud

I had to set a boundary about answering work messages at night.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

set a boundary

state a limit

“I had to set a boundary about answering work messages at night.”

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