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play referee

manage a dispute neutrally

If you play referee, you act as a neutral person who tries to manage a disagreement between other people.

B2 now and then mostly spoken

expression

Hear it in real life

Can you tell Anna that I'm right?

Don't ask me to play referee.

Play the conversation

I spent most of dinner playing referee between my two brothers.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: I don't want to play a referee between them.

Say: I don't want to play referee between them.

Use “play referee” when you mean stepping in to manage an argument; “play a referee” usually means act as one in a game or performance.

Build it

How it fits in a sentence.

play referee; play referee between people; played referee

Your turn: say it out loud

I spent most of dinner playing referee between my two brothers.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

play referee

manage a dispute neutrally

“I spent most of dinner playing referee between my two brothers.”

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