Relationships

let someone set the pace

allow someone to decide how quickly things develop

To allow another person to decide the speed at which a relationship, activity, or process develops.

B2 common mostly spoken

expression

Hear it in real life

Should I ask her to move in?

Maybe let her set the pace.

Play the conversation

When you start a new relationship, it is often wise to let the other person set the pace.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: Let the other person set up the pace.

Say: Let the other person set the pace.

The fixed expression is set the pace, without "up."

Build it

How it fits in a sentence.

let someone set the pace; let the other person set the pace

Your turn: say it out loud

When you start a new relationship, it is often wise to let the other person set the pace.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

let someone set the pace

allow someone to decide how quickly things develop

“When you start a new relationship, it is often wise to let the other person set the pace.”

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