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drop one's guard

stop being defensive

To drop your guard means to relax and stop protecting yourself emotionally or being so cautious.

B2 common speech & writing

expression

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Was the new manager friendly?

Yes, after a while everyone dropped their guard.

Play the conversation

She finally dropped her guard and told us what was really worrying her.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: I dropped my guards around her.

Say: I dropped my guard around her.

This expression uses the singular uncountable noun “guard,” even when someone becomes less defensive.

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How it fits in a sentence.

drop your guard; drop one's guard around someone

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She finally dropped her guard and told us what was really worrying her.

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drop one's guard

stop being defensive

“She finally dropped her guard and told us what was really worrying her.”

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