Grammar fix
find a happy medium
find a middle position
To find a satisfactory middle position between two extreme choices or needs.
How oftenCommon
LevelB2
Used inSpeech & writing
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Notice where the phrase sounds natural.
We’re trying to find a happy medium between saving money and enjoying ourselves.
With exercise, I’ve found a happy medium by going to the gym twice a week instead of trying to train every day.
Fix the pattern
One small grammar move makes it sound right.
Not: make a happy medium between work and rest
Say: find a happy medium between work and rest
Use 'find', 'reach' or 'strike' with 'a happy medium', not usually 'make'.
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Other ways to say it
Get the mix right between two demands
How formalConversationalMore formal
find a happy mediumYou're here · Find a satisfactory middle position between two extremes.
find balanceManage competing activities or needs in satisfactory proportions.strike a balanceOften introduces the two competing needs with 'between'.