sympathy
nounfeeling sorry for someone who has a problem
Sympathy stands beside you and says “I'm so sorry.”
Both are kind, but they are not the same. One stands beside you. The other stands in your shoes.
Quick answer
Sympathy is feeling sorry for someone. Empathy is understanding how they feel by imagining their experience.

feeling sorry for someone who has a problem
Sympathy stands beside you and says “I'm so sorry.”
understanding how someone feels by imagining their experience
Empathy stands in your shoes and tries to feel how it is.
| Word | Type | Means | Example | Common mistake |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| sympathy | noun | feeling sorry for someone who has a problem | I sent her a card to show my sympathy. | |
| empathy | noun | understanding how someone feels by imagining their experience | A good nurse shows empathy as well as skill. |
noun
Examples
I sent her a card to show my sympathy.
He got no sympathy from his boss.
Common mistake
Not: I sympathy with you.
Say: I sympathise with you.
Sympathy is a noun. The verb is sympathise (UK) or sympathize (US).
noun
Examples
A good nurse shows empathy as well as skill.
Her empathy helped her see why he was upset.
Common mistake
Not: I can empathy with her.
Say: I can empathise with her.
Empathy is a noun. The verb is empathise (UK) or empathize (US).
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