Communication

tell someone what they want to hear

say pleasing but possibly dishonest things

You tell someone what they want to hear when you say what they hope or expect to hear, often instead of being fully honest.

B2 common speech & writing

expression

Hear it in real life

Do you think my presentation was good?

I'll be honest rather than tell you what you want to hear.

Play the conversation

Some managers tell people what they want to hear instead of explaining the real problem.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: tell someone what they want to listen

Say: tell someone what they want to hear

Use "hear" in this expression; "listen" usually needs "to" and does not fit the fixed phrase.

Build it

How it fits in a sentence.

tell someone what they want to hear; told someone what they wanted to hear

Your turn: say it out loud

Some managers tell people what they want to hear instead of explaining the real problem.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

tell someone what they want to hear

say pleasing but possibly dishonest things

“Some managers tell people what they want to hear instead of explaining the real problem.”

heytardy

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