Communication

soften the blow

make bad news easier to hear

To make unpleasant or disappointing news feel less upsetting.

B2 common speech & writing

expression

Hear it in real life

How did you tell him the project was cancelled?

I offered him another role to soften the blow.

Play the conversation

I bought her favourite dessert to soften the blow of cancelling our weekend trip.

The mistake everyone makes

Not: I tried to soften the blow of her by offering help.

Say: I tried to soften the blow for her by offering help.

Use “for” to identify who is affected by the softened disappointment.

Build it

How it fits in a sentence.

soften the blow; soften the blow of something

Your turn: say it out loud

I bought her favourite dessert to soften the blow of cancelling our weekend trip.

Say it out loud two or three times, until it feels like yours.

soften the blow

make bad news easier to hear

“I bought her favourite dessert to soften the blow of cancelling our weekend trip.”

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